Jul 20, 2008

Look Closer !

I'm a big believer of knowing WHAT do you want to achieve shouldn't necessarily be paired with knowing exactly HOW to do it .That surely doesn't mean throwing out all kind of dreams with no plan or no sense of how to achieve it what so ever,its just the little details that would take you there that you shouldn't care much about ,they'll come to you ,once you've done your part and home work they should come,and thats how you become a super man ,when you say i want to do something and do it, others will be surprised of HOW you did,and so you'll be yourself ! Many might argue that this is nonsense ,and how come it doesn't work for all ,well for a starter ,those who didn't make it probably didn't believe they're capable of making it in the 1st place ,those still have to work on their self esteem and confidence to conquer what seems "impossible" or "too much" or "too good to happen" ,and others who might have that faith in themselves might just miss the opportunity once it comes knocking their doors . how do you miss an opportunity? one might say ! well we miss a lot of opportunities everyday ,all kind of opportunities ,opportunities to see something beautiful and feel good about it .. when was the last time you carefully watched a bird flying , eating or drinking ?when was the last time you noticed a butterfly around ?
opportunities to make us feel loved and accepted the way we are and make us feel good about it .. when was the last time you told your mother that you love her ? straight forward for no reason ,"i love you mom" or to your dad or siblings ,when was the last time you told a friend how much you appreciate him/her ?
opportunities that make us grateful to whatever that is we have ,and make us feel good about it ..when was the last time you gave a good thought about orphans ,the poor ,the handicapped ,the children in war zones,the abused women ?
if we miss all those "little" stuff,are you still wondering how do we miss long-anticipated opportunities ?

just look closer at everything ,sometimes opportunities comes knocking at your door steps,literally ,and you turn away from them.
If you didn't give up and were consistent about WHAT do you want,it might come back to you ,and then you'll feel good about it.no regrets.
today one came back to me ! I'm so grateful .
I wish you a good "luck",if there is any "luck" in that game.

* Photograph by Abed Dodokh (Royal)

23 comments:

Rawia said...

I can identify my self in your words.... not all people have eough brave.. and sometimes we are late to tell the other how much they mean to us ..Nice words Naser:)

NasEr said...

good to hear that :)
thanks for reading Rawia .

Wafa' said...

Nicely put naser ,it reminds of something i believe in which is " It's the player not the game "

i hope i got it right

SuperNova said...

afham mn hek eno el 3'ayeh tobarrer el waseeleh?
ya mikavilli :p

once you want it bad it all works out somehow, sometimes choas is a process. nice post naser :)

sho bashouf el date lessa mesh tale3? ma haza ya haza?

NasEr said...

yea,the player not the game Wafa . u got it right :D

NasEr said...

Nova : i didn't say el '3ayeh tobarrer el waseeleh i didn't say do it anyway ! :)
thx for stopping by!
5alas i gave up on the date thing :/

Sahar said...

7ta law kan elwa7d shoj3 w 3ml 56wat kbeere b7yatoo, mo kol haleshia btetkalllal belnjaa7, fee 2 elements belmodo3, me + my fate i dunno whos the strongest one !

NasEr said...

definitaly you ,Sahar ! one makes his own fate and luck,or lets say, directs it !one makes the mold and the final shape could be a bit different,but still .
why is there ppl who are ALWAYS feeling down and miserable and gloomy ?and others are always optimistic happy and successful ??

Sahar said...

am not gloomy or pessimistic, bs fe kteer foras beldnia a5deteha, i did all what it takes, bss mo kol shee bezbot m3 elbnee adam, ela 2al2ee obstacle ma akon 7assbeh 7sabha, this obstacle men ween ejat ? and why ? eza e7na ele bnsn3 qadrna w 7asbeen 7sab kol shee w betl3lna 7jrah z3.eere t5reb kol shee and unfourtunatly its irreversible , mo kol shee beldnia bdna eyah bseerelna, even we were the bravest ! but i still optimistic , but i learned not everything the person want could happen :)

NasEr said...

well,also you can believe that "Things happens for a reason",tell ya wut, the next time something good happens,and you nail wut u wanted,you'd think "jad mnee7 ino tele3le el mawdoo3 hadak w 5arrable hadeek el 2essa at that time" bcuz u'll be focusing on that u nailed it finally! it'd feel great .u just keep tryin .its just like when u wait for a taxi for two hours,once u r IN ,u totally 4get about the 2 hrs,and then u have a story a tell later :d

Sahar said...

and that what i wanted to deliver, everything happen for reason, not all things you want could happen to you, maybe it will make you more miserable, that what keeps the person up to life, positive thinking is all what you need to keep you stand up in your life .

NasEr said...

weslat.:D

~healthybratt said...

I found your comment on the blog template page. How did you fix the date problem? I'm having it too and I'm pretty sure the designer either, doesn't care or can't read/speak English. :D Can you offer me some help on this?

Thanks in advance.

SuperNova said...

naser u can't hard code a date. it's a date! hardcoding something is giving it a static value that will prevent it from changing dynamically, and obviously a date..changes..everyday!! it's still july 22! something is still wrong.

NasEr said...

yes Nova,
working on that still.:/

Anonymous said...

naser , check the movie (documentary ) "the secret " and let me know what u think of the law of attraction

NasEr said...

I've seen it already .
always worked for me,and now that i know it,I'm more focused.i believe in the law of attraction."the secret" is great.it works.

Anonymous said...

cool , how about posting a link in humanities n we can discuss it ?

nothing beats a positive attitude

NasEr said...

okay,go ahead and do it :D
cya there :D

I am... said...

"I'm a big believer of knowing WHAT do you want to achieve shouldn't necessarily be paired with knowing exactly HOW to do it"

i wanna confirm it too as well :o
its not about luck at all "if there is any "luck" in that game"
reminds of old arguments n' chats with u nees about the law of attraction...well i'de say it z all true... dream big...desire bigger

NasEr said...

Noor yup ,get rich or die trying :p

Anonymous said...

Your aswome!!! <33

NasEr said...

thx ! u r awesome as well :D

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